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“I had to get off a track and take pay cuts and come back, sacrifice cause my husband was president […] but in the midst of that, I still managed to be a lawyer, run a nonprofit, be an author, and I raised really sane kids,” she said, adding that growth often requires patience and self-compassion.
“It’s like, yeah, I’m not getting it all right […], And it’s okay to not be happy sometimes, like, that’s also a thing, you know, like not being perfectly satisfied and in the exact place that you want every part of your life is like that’s what life is,” she said, encouraging women to stop measuring themselves against unrealistic standards.
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She stressed the importance of community and mutual support among women, warning that comparison and competition ultimately undermine confidence and well-being.
“There hasn’t been one moment in our marriage where I thought about quitting. And we’ve had some really hard times […] I have become a better person because of the man I’m married to,” she divulged.
On “In My Opinion” podcast, Michelle Obama dispels divorce rumors about her marriage to Barack Obama, from an episode dated July 16, 2025. | Source: YouTube/MichelleObama
On “In My Opinion” podcast, Michelle Obama dispels divorce rumors about her marriage to Barack Obama, from an episode dated July 16, 2025. | Source: YouTube/MichelleObama
“These are the kinds of things that I just miss. I don’t even know this stuff’s going on. And then somebody will mention it to me, and I’m all like, ‘What are you talking about?'”
Barack Obama says he is unaware of the divorce rumors about his marriage to Michelle Obama, from an episode dated July 16, 2025. | Source: YouTube/MichelleObama
Barack Obama says he is unaware of the divorce rumors about his marriage to Michelle Obama, from an episode dated July 16, 2025. | Source: YouTube/MichelleObama
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Barack Obama’s New Yorker Interview Revealed the Private Strain
Now, Barack has added a new layer to that picture… In a recent profile with The New Yorker, the former president revealed that life after the White House has not exactly meant a quiet retirement with his wife. According to The Independent, Barack said the pressure for him to remain a major Democratic Party figure still weighs on his marriage.
That pressure did not disappear when he and Michelle left the White House. In fact, Barack suggested it has followed them for a full decade after his presidency ended, especially as his voice has remained one of the most demanded in Democratic politics.
In The New Yorker profile with Peter Slevin, Barack reflected on how he once hoped Donald would be limited by the guardrails of the presidency and the Constitution. But that hope, he said, was quickly overtaken by reality.
Barack Obama and Donald Trump at the State Funeral Service for former US President Jimmy Carter in Washington, D.C., on January 9, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Barack Obama and Donald Trump at the State Funeral Service for former US President Jimmy Carter in Washington, D.C., on January 9, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Barack admitted that the expectation for him to keep reacting, campaigning, and weighing in has created “a genuine tension” inside his home.
Barack and Michelle Obama at the Women’s Singles First Round during Day One of the US Open in Queens borough of New York City on August 28, 2023. | Source: Getty Images
Barack and Michelle Obama at the Women’s Singles First Round during Day One of the US Open in Queens borough of New York City on August 28, 2023. | Source: Getty Images
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“She wants to see her husband easing up and spending more time with her, enjoying what remains of our lives,” he said.
That line changes the whole story… This is not simply about politics, parties, or public speeches; it is about a wife wanting her husband to step back from the endless noise and finally enjoy the private life they earned after years in the spotlight.
Barack also noted that staying involved has meant returning to the campaign trail across multiple election cycles. Sometimes that meant cutting ads, and other times it meant appearing directly with candidates.
Barack and Michelle Obama leaving the Moco Museum in Barcelona, Catalonia, Spain on April 28, 2023. | Source: Getty Images
Barack and Michelle Obama leaving the Moco Museum in Barcelona, Catalonia, Spain on April 28, 2023. | Source: Getty Images
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