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Someone who genuinely cares about you does not need to guilt you into access — to your time, body, or attention.

6. He Doesn’t Respect Your Time or Energy
He shows up late without apology.
He interrupts constantly.
He dominates conversations.
He expects access whenever he wants it.

And somehow, you’re the one feeling rude for being annoyed.

That imbalance matters.

Disrespect for your time is disrespect for you.

7. Your Friends Feel Weird About Him
Sometimes the clearest mirror isn’t your own intuition — it’s the people who love you.

If multiple friends say:

“Something feels off”

“I don’t like how he talks to you”

“He makes me uncomfortable”

Pause.

You don’t have to prove anything. You don’t need “evidence.”

Discomfort is enough.

Self-Care Recipe: Roasted Vegetables
Simple food. No chaos. No emotional noise.

Why:
Clarity comes easier when your nervous system isn’t fried.

8. He Gets Angry When You Assert Yourself
This one is big.

If he reacts with anger, sulking, or passive aggression when you:

Say no

Change plans

Disagree

Set limits

That’s not passion.

That’s a warning.

Safe people don’t punish you for having boundaries.

9. You Feel Like You’re Shrinking
Ask yourself honestly:

Are you censoring yourself?

Dressing differently?

Avoiding topics to “keep the peace”?

Feeling tense instead of relaxed around him?

Your body keeps score.